He was the first of five children and attended primary schools in Taos and San Francisco, California. While attending Taos High School he found his life passion for woodworking, started courting his high school sweetheart — Josefa “Pepe” Martinez — and took on part-time work as a gas attendent and taxi driver.
In January 1951 he and his father were en route to San Francisco, California in search of employment and stopped in Tooele, Utah to visit an uncle. The Korean War had recently begun and he and his dad immediately found employment with the Tooele Ordinance Depot. They decided to “stay for a while” unknowingly establishing Tooele as “home” for the Pacheco family.
In April of that year, Reuben went to Taos to bring back his mother, brother and sister. In August, he again returned to New Mexico, this time marrying Josefa in the iconic San Francisco de Asis Mission Church in Ranchos de Taos, New Mexico.
Upon returning to Tooele, they lived in an apartment in Tooele Army Depot (TAD) Park, then in Tooele’s “Newtown” area, and finally bought land in Pine Canyon (Lincoln), where they built an adobe home in which he and Josefa remained until his passing.
Reuben and Josefa (Pepe) had 12 children, 25 grandchildren, 40 great-grandchidren, and one great-great-grandson. His ‘family’ expands way beyond his children, his siblings and their children that number in excess of 180. He lovingly became known as “Dad,” “Tio/Uncle” and “Grandpa” to countless spouses with significant others, children and friends.
From a very young age, Reuben took on leadership roles and leaves a legacy of working tirelessly for others in his church, at Tooele Army Depot, and in countless civic and social rights issues. Highlights of his community service include forming the Family Benefit Association (FBA), serving as an advocate/obmundsman for Tooele’s Spanish-speaking community during the challenging times of the 1950s, 60s and 70s, and creating SOCIO (Spanish-Speaking Organization for Community Integrity and Opportunity).
Reuben’s leadership led to key roles such as an active member of the Equal Employment Opportunity (EEO) at Tooele Army Depot and serving as an advisor on Utah Governor Calvin Rampton’s Board for Spanish-speaking Affairs. In 1976, he was named “Chicano of the Year.”
Reuben was employed for 33 years at Tooele Army Depot, with the bulk of his employment in the Facilities Division’s carpentry shop, where he was shop supervisor. He was very proud of his office — one many throughout the depot envied. After hours, Reuben remodeled homes and businesses throughout Tooele County. He performed business under the name of Pine Canyon Custom Shop.
He specialized in kitchens with formica finishes and hand carvings. Today his home features a front door and kitchen cabinets with roses carved into the wood. Reuben was widely known as a “Jack of all trades,” capable of doing a wide variety of skilled professional work and willing to lend a hand or a tool. He continued operating the business through 2017. Just recently, he actually retired and took up and really enjoyed fishing with friends.
Reuben lived an active social life, continually visiting friends and family at all hours of the day and was known for gathering fruits and vegetables and then returning with homemade jelly or chili.
Reuben was the patriarch of the Pacheco Family. He loved his family very much and enjoyed spending time with them — especially in the home and in “the shop.” He was quite the character — always telling stories and jokes, giving individuals unique nick names and sometimes chastising others with a stern tone that disguised his caring character. He is most widely known for offering all visitors hot cocoa, peanuts, tortillas, chile or beans. He even had his own nicknames of “Robin Hood” and “Mayor of Pine Canyon.”
Most recently, it was brought to light that Reuben did a short term of military service and received an honorary discharge from the US Coast Guard.
Reuben was a proud member of the Catholic Church and frequently talked of his primary education at Sacred Heart Academy in San Franciso. As a parishioner of St. Marguerite’s in Tooele, he helped establish the concept of ushers, assisted in building the current church structure, facilitated larger remodeling and painting of the parish halls, and built special spaces for the statue of Saint Marguerite Mary and the grotto for the Our Lady of Guadalupe statue.
Reuben is survived by his wife Josefa “Pepe,” children: George (Anita), Dennis, Kathy (Johnny) Archuleta, MaryAnn, Jeff, Gilbert, Daniel, Janet (Chris) Trujillo, Rowena, Christy (Jeff) Salandi and Ruby (Keith) Larsen. Reuben is also survived by brothers Robert “Pepo”, Alex (Debra) and sister Elsie. He was preceded in death by parents Alber and grandson Anthony Graham.
A funeral mass will be celebrated Wednesday, June 14, 2017 at 11 a.m. at St. Marguerite’s Catholic Church in Tooele, Utah. Friends may visit one hour prior to the mass as well as during the viewing Tuesday, June 13, 2017 from 6-8 p.m. where the Holy Rosary will be recited at 7 p.m. Burial will be in the Tooele City Cemetery.
Donations can be made to the “Pacheco Family Fund” at Chartway Credit Union or by mail at PO Box is 564, Tooele, UT 84074 and at 566 North Ericson Rd, Tooele, UT 84074. Condolences can be offered to Josefa at 435- 882-0699 and Daniel at 801-244-2048.